“If She Asks You For Money, She Wants To Marry You”- Lady Advises Men

A Nigerian lady has stirred reactions online after expressing her view on what it means when a woman begins to request money from a man in a relationship.

She said many men often get it wrong, but in her opinion, such requests usually indicate that the woman is thinking seriously about a future with the man.

In a viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter), she stated:

“Once a girl starts asking you for money, she’s planning to marry you. Yes, it’s a test. Give her that money. If you don’t have that money, go and borrow it. It’s a test. She’s testing you.”

She maintained that men should not automatically see financial requests as a warning sign, arguing that some women use them to gauge a man’s readiness and ability to provide support.

She also advised that men who cannot meet such expectations should allow those who can to take their place.

“So once she starts asking for money, she’s planning to marry you. Marry her. Give her the money. If the money no dey, go borrow am. If you cannot borrow the money, move. Move. So the one wey go fit pay, go pay,” she added.

Her comments have divided opinions online, with some agreeing that financial support is part of serious relationships, while others insisted that love should not be tied to money.

The video continues to trend across social media platforms, fueling debates about relationships, finances, and modern dating expectations.

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