“There’s a War Against Good Men and Marriages” — American Woman Married to Nigerian Man Advises Wives to Pray for Their Husbands

An American woman, Erin Harris-Uzor, who is married to a Nigerian man, has sparked conversations online after advising women to constantly pray for their husbands, saying there is an ongoing “war” against good men and stable marriages.

Erin shared the message in a Facebook post on Sunday, May 24, 2026, where she emphasized the importance of supporting and spiritually uplifting spouses amid growing challenges confronting relationships and family life.

According to her, many good men and healthy marriages are under pressure in today’s society, making it important for women to intentionally stand by their partners through prayers and encouragement.

Her post read in part:

“Pray for your husbands. There is a war on good men and good marriages.”

The statement quickly attracted reactions from social media users, with many agreeing with her perspective on the increasing struggles facing modern marriages, while others shared personal experiences about maintaining healthy relationships.

Erin and her Nigerian husband tied the knot in 2025, and the couple has continued to attract attention online for sharing moments from their interracial marriage and relationship journey.

Her latest message has since resonated with several married women and relationship advocates who believe strong communication, commitment, faith, and mutual support remain essential for sustaining successful marriages.