“Someone in Debt in Nigeria Sleeps Better Than Me” – UK-Based Nigerian Woman Opens Up on Mental Health Battle

A Nigerian woman living in the United Kingdom has sparked conversations online after opening up about her mental health struggles, revealing that life abroad has taken a serious toll on her emotional well-being despite earning a good income.

In a viral video, the woman said she has been battling depression since relocating to the UK and has relied heavily on antidepressants, which she claims are no longer as effective due to prolonged use.

She said:

“Since I came to this country, I haven’t had peace of mind and I’m tired. Living here has taken a toll on my mental health. I’ve been taking antidepressants continuously and they’ve stopped working because I take it too much. Someone back in Nigeria, who is in serious debt, sleeps better and has more peace of mind than someone here who is working and earning a good income.”

Her emotional confession has resonated with many Nigerians at home and in the diaspora, with social media users sharing different perspectives on the realities of living abroad.

Reacting, @agunurichard wrote:

“I understand how you feel. Sometimes you just need that cry but after the cry sit down and speak to yourself, encourage yourself and don’t give up. It’s well.”

@71Samfkw4 commented:

“That is not good if you continue to take antidepressants for a longer period. It is good when you take it for a short run. Never mix antidepressants with alcohol it could be a deadly behavior.”

Sharing a different perspective, @Kanrabbai said:

“Before I’d have disregarded this as I’d feel it’s a rubbish talk but I’ve come to learn that many people have different realities. I hope she finds her way because UK is actually a good place but easily! You can get lost.”

@Mikestones2012 added:

“Sorry but no one in Nigeria is ever gon believe you. Na who no go know, just as we say about NYSC. So no waste ya time on educating anyhow here on the depressive nature in UK.”

Offering spiritual advice, @kaybam101 wrote:

“Just get closer to God. Join a church family, get involved in activities. I totally understand you.”

Also reacting, @mlasod commented:

“God grant you peace of mind and soul. Nobody knows your journey…. Keep your head high and keep swimming…. 🙏”

The video has continued to fuel discussions about the hidden emotional challenges many migrants face despite the perceived financial opportunities of living abroad.