“It is stupid of you to want to get to know me on my birthday” — Lady says

A lady has sparked reactions online after a strongly worded message she shared about how she prefers to be treated on her birthday surfaced on social media.

In the post, she expressed frustration over attempts by some individuals to engage her in conversations on her special day, insisting that she preferred financial gestures and space over prolonged discussions.

The lady’s message quickly drew attention due to the tone and directness of her comments about expectations from men during her birthday celebration.

Birthday expectations spark reactions

According to her, she was not interested in casual conversations or attempts to get to know her on her birthday, stating that such interactions were unnecessary.

“It is stupid of you to want to get to know me on my birthday. It is stupid of you”

She further added that she preferred individuals who could meet certain expectations rather than engage her in lengthy conversations.

“It is my birthday allow me. If you no fit press money, clear. Do you understand? You don’t have to engage me in a lot of conversations”

Further comments draw attention online

The lady continued her remarks by questioning the intentions of those attempting to engage her, adding that she was not interested in sharing her personal time with people she did not value.

“You men are you people stupid? Una no dey get sense. You want me to tell you things I like on my birthday, you think I’m jobless like you.”

She also stated that she preferred individuals who could meet financial expectations, adding that she was not interested in giving out personal details such as her location for social visits.

“I should give you my location so you will come and eat cake. You no dey shame? Nobe your mate dey press money for me since. Shame on you. Get out. I don’t like men that don’t have money”

The post has generated widespread reactions online, with social media users debating expectations around birthdays, relationships, and financial support in modern dating culture.

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I don’t like men that can’t press money, I’m doing birthday you’re asking for location to eat cake.” — Lady pic.twitter.com/LNiJxzTghr

— TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) June 21, 2026