“Don’t Have All Your Children With One Woman” — Geh Geh’s Advice to Men Sparks Outrage Online

Nigerian social commentator Geh Geh has ignited debate on social media after advising men against having all their children with one woman.

In a viral video, Geh Geh argued that men who plan to have multiple children should consider having them with different women, claiming it is a practical response to modern relationship challenges.

According to him, changing family dynamics have given women greater control over access to children, particularly when relationships break down.

“The worst mistake you can make as a man is to allow one woman to give birth to all your children. If you want four children, let four different women have them. Modern problems require modern solutions,” he said.

Geh Geh went on to claim that fathers are often recognised mainly because they provide financial support, adding that disagreements with a child’s mother could result in limited access to the child.

“A man doesn’t really own the child; the woman does. If she includes you in raising the child, it’s because of the responsibility you carry. Once you don’t do what she wants, she can restrict your access. You could grow old and end up without your children,” he said.

His comments have since gone viral, drawing mixed reactions online. While some users agreed that fathers can face challenges in maintaining relationships with their children after separation, many others criticized his advice, arguing that having children with multiple partners could create even greater emotional, financial, and family complications.

Watch the video here.